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What does the Bible say about difficult family members?

Scripture is honest about family conflict, from Joseph's brothers to Jesus' own relatives, and calls us to peace as far as it depends on us.

What Scripture says

Romans 12:18

If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men.

Matthew 10:35-36

For I came to set a man at odds against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law. A man’s foes will be those of his own household.

Proverbs 15:1

A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger.

Colossians 3:13

bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.

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